Sunday, December 30, 2007

How many holiday movies can I watch?

Now that Christmas is over, so are the nonstop holiday movies. It's one of the things I miss most about December -- the ability to find a Christmas-themed movie on virtually any channel at any time of the day.

For some reason, I love these sappy movies -- many of which are found on Lifetime, Hallmark and the Family Channel -- need I say more about the level of sap? My mom also likes these movies so maybe it's genetic.

The plots and endings are ridiculously predictable but I just can't help myself. I'll record a dozen or more of these movies and watch them up through New Year's (today's count: I have three left).

Maybe it's just because these movies represent all that's beautiful about the Christmas season -- peace, joy and goodwill toward men. We don't always encounter that in real life so it's fun to get sucked into a pretend world where it always snows on Christmas, the gifts are beautifully wrapped and couples never forget to kiss under the mistletoe.

Hmmm, I'm already looking forward to next year's round of holiday films.

What are you worth?

Check out this interview with Kelly Love Johnson. I worked with Kelly with I first started with the Charleston Regional Business Journal. She was the managing editor and I really enjoyed working with her. She later left to become an editor with Skirt! magazine, a women's publication that started in Charleston but has since expanded to various locations around the country.

Kelly has a new book out called "Skirt! Rules for the Workplace." I'm hoping to pick up a copy soon because it sounds very interesting. One of the topics it addresses is asking for a raise - something I admit I'm not good at doing. I just accept whatever salary increase I'm given and don't ask for more - even when I think I deserve it.

What sort of message does that send to my boss? My personality is one that doesn't like to rock the boat or deal with any kind of confrontation or uncomfortable situation. That's probably one reason I'm hesitant to ask for more money. Plus, what happens if my boss simply says, "No, we can't give you that much." Do I let it go? Do I press the issue? How far is too far?

What are your tips for asking for a raise?

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

The ups and downs of fostering

This fall, Clint decided we should become foster parents with Lowcountry Lab Rescue. The organization was in dire need of foster families and would not be able to rescue any more Labs until more volunteers were found. Nothing like the thought of poor homeless Labs being sent to the animal shelter and probably euthanized to tug at your heart strings.

Cut to present day: We have two foster dogs for a grand total of four dogs at our house. Yes, four dogs. I now know why most people have only two children. Once you surpass two, life becomes just a little more chaotic. Now don’t get me wrong, our foster dogs are sweet and most of the time are relatively little trouble as they spend much of the day playing in our backyard (thank goodness for our large backyard and a warm climate!).

But as we approach Baby Day, it’s becoming more critical to find homes for our foster children. So, here’s a photo and some info. If you or someone you know has “Get a dog” as a New Year’s Resolution, fill out an adoption application with Lowcountry Lab Rescue.


This is Dixie, a 9-month-old black Lab ready for a loving home. She's incredibly sweet and loves to play. She is spayed, house trained, crate trained and knows basic doggie commands (sit, stay, heel). She loves to retrieve the ball and would make a wonderful pet.


This a Faye, a 3-year-old chocolate Lab. Faye has been through some tough times but is really thriving. She would do well in a home where her family would give her lots of attention and love. She is a puppy at heart and enjoys playing in the yard, chasing the ball and wrestling with her foster sister, Dixie. She is spayed and knows some basic commands (sit, heel).

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Clint and I spent a very quiet Christmas at home this year. We suspect it will be our last once we introduce a baby to the mix next year! It was nice to have a few days to simply rest. The last few weeks of my pregnancy have really worn me out. I find I’m spending more time sleeping or just lying on the couch watching television. I suppose I should enjoy it – I may not take another nap for 18 years!

I’ve posted some photos to an online baby photo album for anyone interested in seeing ultrasound photos, baby shower photos and pictures of me as I grow. Coming soon: nursery photos. It’s almost complete.